Relationship Boundary Quiz

Welcome to your Relationship Boundary Quiz

1.) You and a close friend have been planning a weekend away for a few months, and you’re really looking forward to getting away and spending time with her. She has a new romantic partner and has recently been cancelling the plans that you two have made together. This time, on the Monday before your weekend trip she cancels because she says that she is just too busy. You:

2.) Every year you and your roommates from college plan a weekend getaway that you really look forward to. Somehow, it’s always been your responsibility to plan and schedule the weekend. This time, you’re really busy and quite frankly you’re a bit tired of this role. You:

3.) You’re overwhelmed at work—so much so that you find yourself working late every day and even on the weekends. Your boss gives you yet another “special” assignment, and you don’t think you can get it done while staying on top of your current responsibilities. You:

4.) You’re at a bar on a first date. You’re not having fun and you really want to leave. He, on the other hand, is having a great time telling you all about himself (and asking you nothing!). He suggests that you two get dinner. You:

5.) You’ve been dating someone for awhile and you’re excited that it seems to be getting serious. However, he often makes other plans for the weekend that don’t include you, and usually doesn’t even tell you about it until the last minute. You:

6.) You make a sarcastic joke to your girlfriend, thinking that it’s all in good fun. She tells you that she feels hurt by the comment. You:

7.) You have a new romantic partner and you’re anxious to introduce him to your best friend. You two have been dating for awhile and your instincts tell you that he’s “the one”. Your friend takes an immediate dislike to your partner and makes sure to tell you about it. You:

8.) You’re dating someone and really like him, and you even hope that he becomes your life partner. However, recently you notice that when you open up to him about something that you’re struggling with, he immediately tries to fix it instead of just listening to you. You:

9.) You’re starting to really like a guy you’ve been dating for a few months. You want to make the relationship exclusive, but haven’t told him that yet because you have no idea if he’s dating other people. You:

10.) You recently moved in with your partner. Previously, you saw each other only on the weekends. You often work late, enjoy evenings with your friends and like to go to the gym on the other evenings. Your partner has begun to ask for more of your time during the week, and appears resentful when you don’t meet up with him/her after work. You: